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英语口语:初次见面十句最实用的开场白
Whether you
want to start a conversation with a new
guy or
girl you find attractive or you want to get a
training
session off to a great start, a good
ice breaker can help
you make a memorable
first impression. It can turn that
first
encounter with someone new into something
wonderful that blossoms into lasting
friendships and
valuable partnerships.
不论
你是想和心仪的男生或女生展开对话,还是想让一次培
训课有好的开始,一句好的开场白有助于你给他人
留下难忘
的第一印象。它会让你和某人的初次见面变得非常美好,让
你们之间发展出长久的友谊
和有价值的合作关系。
A bad ice breaker, however,
can be a recipe for disaster. It
can spiral
out of control pretty quickly and at best be a
terrible waste of time or worse an
embarrassment for
everyone involved. So, how
do you start a meaningful
conversation with
someone new and avoid
embarrassments or
awkward moments of silence? Where
do you
begin?
然而一句糟糕的开场白则可能引发灾难。它会让场面很快失
控
,至少也浪费了时间,搞不好还会让每个人都尴尬。那么
你该如何和初次见面的人开始一场有意义的交谈
,而且避免
尴尬和冷场呢?你该怎么进行开场?
Understand
that it is normal to feel a bit nervous when
approaching someone new. Everyone gets a
little shy at
first; after all, you don’t know
what this other person is like.
The person
could be a grumpy, mean guy, but the only
way
to know for sure what the person is like is to get
over
being shy and approach them. That person
might turn out
to be the nicest, kindest
person you ever meet.
你要明白,和一个陌生人接近时感到有点紧张是很正
常的。
最开始每个人都会有些害羞,毕竟你不清楚对方是怎样的人。
那个人也许是个坏脾气的讨
厌鬼,但唯一确定这个人个性的
办法就是克服害羞,去接近他。也许这个人会成为你所遇到
的最
亲切最善良的人。
Start by filling your idea
vault with possible ice breakers to
start a
conversation and follow-up questions to sustain
the
conversation. Listen attentively to the
other person’s
responses because this can make
or break your follow-up
questions. To help you
out with ideas for starting a
conversation, here are ten of the most
effective ice
breakers you can use in
different scenarios to get a
conversation off
and running.
一开始你应该想好各种可能的开场白以便开始这场对话,并
且准
备后续的问题让对话持续下去。仔细倾听对方的回应,
因为这会影响到你后续问题的成败。为了帮助你开
始一场对
话,下面是10句最有用的开场白,你可以用于不同场合,
让对话开始并进行下去。
1. “How are you doing today,
miss?”
“小姐,今天过得怎么样?”
A genuine
hello accompanied by a heartwarming, three
second smile is one of the most basic, highly
effective ice
breakers there is. Often, we
brush simple things aside as
being too simple
not realizing the simplest things can have
the
biggest impact in life.
一句真诚的问候搭配上一个温暖的三秒钟微笑是
最基本也
最有用的开场白。我们总是忽略一些简单的东西,并没有发
觉那些最简单的东西可以在
生活中发挥最大的效果。
Think about the
people who say “good morning” or “howdy”
to
their neighbors. This simple greeting is usually
followed
up with “how are you” or “how are the
kids?” Before long,
the two parties are
talking about their families and even
favorite
sports teams.
想想那些对邻居说“早上好”或者“你好”的人。这种简单的问候通常会得到“你好吗”或者“孩子们好吗”作为回应。很快,双方
就开始谈论他们的家庭甚至最喜欢
的球队了。
2. “Nice earrings!”
“你的耳环真漂亮!”
This comment represents a
classic technique that is quite
effective for
starting a conversation. Regardless of whom
you are talking to, saying something genuinely
nice about
their outfit, accessories or even
mood will usually be
received well.
这句评价代
表了开场白中十分有用的一种经典技巧。不论你
在和谁聊天,真诚地赞美一下他们的着装、配饰、甚至是
心
情,对方通常会很乐意接受。
The person receiving
the compliment will thank you and
possibly say something nice about you
in return. In doing
this, a dialogue begins.
Keep the dialogue going by asking
a question
like “Where did you buy the earrings? I really
like them.”
接受你赞美的人会向你表示感谢,可能还会对你说一些赞美
的话作为回报。这样一来,一场对话就开始了。想要继续对
话,可以问这样的问题,比如“你的耳环在
哪里买的?我非常
喜欢。”
3. “Does this shop
always have such long queues?”
“这家商店门口总是要排这么长的队吗?”
Simply
commenting on an unpleasant or uncomfortable
situation that you both experience in your
immediate
surroundings is another effective
strategy for starting a
conversation. You can
comment about a long bathroom
line or wobbly
waiting-room chair.
在周边环境中,对你们双方共同经历过的某种令人不愉快
或
者不舒服的情况进行简单的评价,也是一种有用的开场白策
略。你可以抱怨卫生间门口的长队
或者等候室里摇晃的椅子。
By focusing on an
unpleasant situation that you both find
yourselves in and subtly complaining
about it, you cleverly
suck the other person
into an unwitting pact that unites
both of you
against a common enemy.
关注某个你们共同身处的不愉快的场景并且不经
意地抱怨,
你就巧妙地把对方和自己拉到了一条阵线上,对抗一个共同
的敌人。
4. “Chicago really is the windy city!”
“芝加哥确实是风之城啊!”
Yes. Talk about the
weather. It may sound clichéd, but it
works
wonders in real life. People talk about the
weather
all the time—It’s a topic everyone has
an opinion on. Think
of how you have an
opinion about what dress or fashion
choice is
right for different weather.
没错,谈论天气。听上去也许有点老
套,但在现实中确实管
用。人们总是在谈论天气——这是一个人人都可以发表观点
的话题。你可
以想想对于不同天气该如何穿衣搭配的观点。
Once the person
responds, you can ease into the
conversation
with “small talk” like, “The wind is so strong; it
nearly blew me over!”
一旦对方做出回应,你就可
以很容易把谈话继续下去,比如
“风太大了,就快把我吹跑了!”
5.
“Oh, did you hear about…”
“你听没听说……”
Kick-start a conversation with a description
of an
interesting, entertaining andor funny
story. Get right in to
your story description
and then allow the other person to
make a
remark or share an opinion of the story.
描述一个
有趣的、娱乐性的或者搞笑的故事作为开场白。讲
完故事之后让对方就这个故事发表评论或者分享观点。
If your story is interesting enough,
there really is no telling
where it could take
the ensuing dialogue and for how long
you
could stretch the conversation once your new
friend
gets on board.
如果你的故事足够有趣,就没必要担心你们
的对话该如何继
续或者继续多久了,只要你的新朋友被你的故事吸引就行。
6.
“What kind of drink is that?
“你喝的是什么?”
People love eating and drinking.
If the person you want to
start a conversation
with has a nice-looking drink or a
delicious-
looking burger, comment on how delicious (or not
delicious) the burger is. Alternatively asks
her what kind of
drink she’s having.
人们喜欢
吃吃喝喝。如果你想要聊天的那个人在喝一杯不错
的饮料或者在吃一个看上去美味的汉堡,可以评价一下
这个
汉堡有多好吃(或者多难吃)。或者你也可以问她喝的是什
么。
When she replies, follow up with something
like “Do you
really like it?” or ” Can I buy
you another?” Introduce
yourself and don’t
forget to flash your best charming smile.
如果她
回答你了,可以继续问“你真的喜欢吗?”或者“我能再
请你喝一杯吗?”自我介绍一下,别忘了展现你
最迷人的微笑。
7. “That’s a lovely name; are
you named after someone?”
“这个名字真好听,
是以某个人命名的吗?”
This works especially well
in a workplace setting, business
meeting or
conference where people are wearing name
tags. If she has an interesting name,
walk up to her and
say something like
“Camille, lovely name. What’s the origin
of
the name?”
这句开场白尤其适用于工作场所、商务会议之类人们带着姓
名胸牌的
场合。如果她的名字很有意思,走上去对她说“卡米
尔,可爱的名字,它的来历是什么呢?”
She’ll probably be excited to tell you about
her French
name and before you know it, a
conversation has ensued.
If her name is
ordinary or common, however, you might not
find too many interesting questions to ask. 她也许会很激动地告诉你她的法语名字,还不用等你知道,
一场对话已经展开了。可是如果她的名字
很平常很普通,你
也许问不出什么有趣的问题。
8. “Hello, do
you work here?”
“你好,你在这里工作吗?”
This
also works well at a workplace or business setting
where people are wearing name tags. Even if
you know
the answer, ask whether he works
there anyway. If you
know some people who work
at his company or retail store,
mention
them to him.
这句同样适用于人们佩戴姓名胸牌的工作场所或商务场合。
即使
你知道答案,也要问问他是否在这里工作。如果你认识
某个人和他在同一家公司或者零售店工作,可以提
起他们的
名字。
Follow up with related
questions like “What do you do
here?” “Have
you been working here a long time?” “Do you
like it here?” “What’s your favoriteworst part
of your job?
接下来可以问一些相关的问题,比如“你在这里做什么工
作?”
“你在这里工作很久了吗?”“你喜欢这里吗?”“你最喜
欢最不喜欢这份工作哪一点?”
9. “People call me David, but you can call me
TONIGHT.”
“人们叫我大卫,不过你今晚可以给我打电话。”
Okay, telling a joke is easier said than done.
Jokes can be
tricky, but they’re some of the
best conversations starters
you can throw at
someone new. They help the other
person see a
witty, fun and likeable side of your
personality.
确实,讲笑话说起来容易做起来难。讲笑话并不容易,但是
p>
和某人初次见面时,笑话是最好的开场白。它可以让对方看
到你性格当中幽默、有趣
、可爱的一面。
That said, unless you’re really
confident about your
joke-telling skills, it’s
probably a good idea to avoid them or
start
with a self-deprecating joke. You can’t possibly
offend
yourself, can you?
虽然如此,除非你对自己讲笑话的
技巧非常自信,否则最好
还是不要讲,尤其是自我贬低型的笑话。你不太能冒犯自己
吧,对吗?
10. “Excuse me, I just thought I should
come over and talk
to you.”
“打扰一下,我觉得我应该过来跟你聊聊。”
Sometimes the
best and most fun ice breaker is honesty.
Walk
up to her and just be honest. Tell her you want to
talk
to her. Point out how awkward and funny
the situation
actually is for both of you and
that you are trying to make
the best of it. <
br>有时候最好也最有趣的开场白就是大实话。走到她面前,坦
白说。告诉她你想和她聊天。告诉她这
种情形对你们来说尴
尬又滑稽,所以你要好好利用。
Honesty really can be the best policy. Who
doesn’t love a
refreshing bout of honesty, any
way?
诚实确实是最佳法则。无论如何,谁不喜欢让人振奋的诚实
出击呢?
There you have it: ten of the most effective
ice breakers
you can use to initiate a
meaningful conversation with
someone new.
现在你知道了10句最有用的开场白。你可以用来和初次见
面的人开始一场有意义的对话了。
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