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2021年1月21日发(作者：逃避现实)
When
people
need
to
discuss
upsetting
or
controversial
problems
with
others,
some
people
prefer to use e-mail or text messaging. Others like to use telephone or voice messaging. Which
do you prefer? Use specific reasons to support your answer.


Communication is of great importance in our daily lives. When people are in need of conveying
their
feelings
or
ideas
to
others,
some
people
tend
to
choose
telephone
or
voice
messaging
because
it
is
more
direct.
I,
however,
argue
for
communicating
by
the
way
of
e-mail
or
text
messaging.

To
begin,
using
e-mail
or
text
messaging
is
a
more
polite
way
to
express
people's
thoughts
to
others. When people need to put out their points
of view to those who are not quite familiar
with,
it's
impolite
to
telephone
them
or
have
a
talk
to
them
directly.
According
to
a
recent
research
on
the
Internet,
nearly
85
percent
of
people
regarded
words
from
e-mails
or
text
messaging
they
received
more
polite
than
those
they
heard
via
telephone
calls
or
voice
messaging. That is to say, choosing the way of conveying ideas by an indirect way, like a letter or
an
e-mail,
may
help
people
better
express
themselves
in
a
friendly
tone.
On
the
contrary,
for
example, if you are a new employee of a large company and you are going to discuss some details
about your work with your manager, it's not sensible for you to go straight to his office talking to
him face to face because what you do may lead you to a bad impression for disturbing his work.
So, a better method is to send him an e-mail with your problems and ideas in it. And I am sure
you will get an immediate reply or contact after he opened his mailbox.

Also, e-mail or text massaging makes communication more fluent and instant in some conditions.
An urgent communication with people who are having a meeting tends to fail because people are
not allowed to pick telephone calls or have free discuss to others during that time. I remember an
embarrassing time when I was very young, I couldn't get into my house after school because I
forgot to bring the keys with me. I had to use a public telephone to get in touch with my mom.
What was worse, my mother was having an important meeting and she didn't realize that the
constant calling was mine. How I wish I had had a mobile phone so that I could text message to
tell her about my trouble instead of waiting for her coming back home late at night.

In sum, I suggest people discussing issues or problems with others in a proper way like sending an
e-mail or texting a message. A communication in silence is not only as convenient and instant as
making telephone calls, but also makes people more polite and graceful communicators in our
daily lives.

Do
you
agree
or
disagree
with
the
following
statement?
There
is
never
a
reason
to
be
rude
(impolite) to another person. Use specific reasons to support your answer.

作文：
Treating people politely is an essential element in the process of creating a harmonious
society
and
we
are
often
taught
never
to
be
rude
to
others
since
our
childhood.
Although
politeness is a key piont(point) in our daily communications, I believe there are still a few reasons
accounting for being impolite to another preson(person).


For
one
reason,
there
are
some
emotions,
like
anger,
annoy
and
eager,
sometimes
leading
to
impoliteness during a conversation. In addition, people may have a tendency to be rude to others
when
they
are
in
an
emergency
situation.
However,
this
kind
of
impoliteness
or
rudeness
is
understandable and acceptable after a proper explaination(explanation). For example, once my
best friend and I hold totally different ideas on an issue and consequently we had a firm quarrel.
She got so angery(angry) that she shouted at me with some dirty words as well, which made me
extremely depressed and upset for quite a long time. At the moment I thought that I would lose
my best friend ever since, she came to me with her sincere apology, which broke the coldness
between us. So, in my point of view, a comtemperoray(temporary) impoliteness caused by some
special emotions is not an evil in people's communication.


For
another
reason,
as
politeness
is
important
to
both
the
speaker
and
the
listener
in
a
conversation, their is no necessary for one person to keep being gentle and graceful if the other
one shows no respect at all. Furthermore, a friendly talk is based on joint efforts from both sides.
If the person we are talking with is really aggressive and attacktive, we are of no need to endure
his insult with an elegant smile because he does not deserve our politeness. There is an ancient
Chinese
story
about
an
intelligent
embassender(ambassador)
visiting
another
country
but
was
treated in a rude and insultant way by the emperor there. It was unfriendly and unbearable for
him
because
he
was
on
behalf
of
his
country.
In
order
not
to
watch
his
country
insulted,
he
managed to trick the emperor in very sharp words and defend the dignity of his own country. We
can draw a conclusion from this story that being rude to others is acceptable and needed under
the circumstance when we are attacked by others first.

It is known to all that treating other people in a kind and polite way is a virtue in Chinese culture.
However, politeness does not mean we have to perform like a graceful lady or a gentleman all the
time. As for me, whether being polite or not to another person depends on different situations.
Since people all have their own mood, they have the ability to justify on which condition is the
rudeness accountable and understandable.

To conclude, I disagree with the statement that there is never a reason to be rude or impolite to
others though respect is dispensable in our daily communications because there exists reluctant
rudeness
caused
by
emotions
which
are
not
well
controled(controlled)
and
the
defensive
impoliteness is reasonable sometimes.


4.14
Recently
some
educationists
assert
that
students,
influenced
by
modern
ideology,
are
more
aggressive
and
independent
than
before,
resulting
in
the
fact
that
they
do
not
respect
their
teachers
as
much
as
in
the
past.
Is
this
really
the
case?
I
do
not
quite
think
so.
For
my
part,
people nowadays do not decrease their respect to teachers. Several reasons will be offered to
testify my hypothesis.

To begin with, since in childhood, we are told to be polite to older people especially our teachers
by family and society. Before attending school, parents instruct us to behave appropriately and