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Psychological Counseling Dialog
(
C: Counselor
V
:
Vis
itor
)
C
:
(smiling)
Nice to meet you!
I
’
m happy to do something
for you!
V:
Well , thank
you! I
’
m a student in Grade
Three in a high school. It
’
s
the last year
for me to preparing for
the College Entrance Examination. But I always
feel down
recently,
and
I
don
’
t
want
to
do
anything
when
I
feel
very
bad,
so
I
skip
some
lessons.
While
skipping
lessons
makes
me
feel
ashamed
and
regretful.
These
make me can
’
t
concentrated on my study.
C:
That is to say, your black mood makes
you unsatisfied with you study. Actually
it
’
s common for
students of your grade to feel depressed. Some
other ones also
reflect they
don
’
t want to go to class.
But they always stick at having class,
concerned for being criticized by
parents and teachers.
(generalization)
V:
Er
……
Maybe my
emotion changes too fast. What makes me feel
depressed
now is the time I feel
depressed is longer, while the time I feel happy
is shorter.
C:
So you still
have time feeling good. It
’
s
merely not longer than before.
(focus
on positive information, ignore the negative)
V:
yeah
C:
What do you most hope for
now then?
(question presuppose,
suggested the counseling goal is to change)
V:
I hope I could go back to
the excellent fettle of study.
C:
(delightedly)
Then, you used
to be in a very good studying state. Could you
tell
me when you felt good of study
fettle and how you made it
?
(lead visitor to focus on
his successful experience, improve his sense of
personal control)
V:
When
the term started. At that time, I was always in
peace and could
concentrated on my
study, I felt confident of myself, even for my
poor grade in
class.
I’
m sure that I could catch
up with others. So I could study systematically.
C:
what did you do else to
keep your good emotion state?
(continue
to focus on successful experience)
V:
I studied hard, and
didn
’
t compare with others.
So I could keep peace inside
myself.
C:
You have excellent study
ability looking from this perspective.
(approvingly)
In
addition, you focused more on ego,
target and proceeds. These two factors made
you feel good.
(praise
visitor to promote his confidence)
Then, do you feel that you
have the ability to change your current
state?
(learn
visitor
’
s current
situation)
V:
Yes. I still feel very confident of
myself
(smile)
.Although in
bad state, I could
keep better-than-
average level. I could do better if I change
current situation.
C:
yeah,
I believe you could.
Y
ou
said that you would skip lessons when you feel
depressed. What do you think makes you
feel ashamed and regretful?
(specific technology)
V:
I missed what the teacher
taught my classmates. When I went back to class, I
did not know what to do. I feel that I
was wasting time. This made me more
depressed and nervous .
C:
Would you feel better
when you skip lessons
?
V:
it merely made me feel
better when
I’
m absent. I
felt more depressed when
coming back to
classroom.
C:
It
seems skipping lessons
couldn
’
t solve your problem?
What do you think
could settle your
problem better?
(guide visitor think in
positive direction)
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