Confucianism and My Family 孔子学说及我的家庭

Confucianism and My Family

Abstract :

Chinese value concepts have been influenced by Confucianism , especially ren

and li ,which lie at the very core of Confucianism .

Key words :

Confucianism , harmonious , happy

It

was

in

middle

school

When

I

first

learned

the

writings

of

Confucius

,

however, I didn

’

t understand much about his thoughts until I grew up .

Confucius

’

s

central

doctrine

is

that

of

the

virtue

of

ren

,

which

is

translated

variously

as

goodness,

humanity

,

and

human- heartedness .

In

short

,

ren

means

affection and love .

“

A

man of ren loves others.

”

According to

Confucian Classics,

Our

government

has

been

calling

on

the

people

to

build

a

harmonious

society

in

recently years . So from here we see that the impact of Confucianism is powerful .

As we all know , family is one of the cells of a nation , so it

’

s fundamental that

family represents

Confucianism and it helps

me recall some happy

and

harmonious

fragments of my family . Although there are a lot of passers-by ,often I giggle at those

happiness suddenly when I

’

m on my way.

When I was a child , I had sufficient pocket money and I begrudged spending it

on snacks,so I save up the I often lent my father money when he needed

some ,but with a condition . For instance , if he borrowed me 100 yuan ,then he must

pay

me

back

105

yuan .

Perhaps

someone

will

be

somewhat

surprised

to

hear

the

story , but my parents didn

’

t object to my requirement at that time ,what

’

s more, they

kept their words . I always feel lucky that I have enlightened parents.

It

is

said

that

a

daughter

is

the

lover

from

preexistent

of

father

.In

my

memory ,most of the time I stayed with my father.I still remember it clearly at a dusk .

When I went home after school , a thick stick came into view at the moment

I

pushed

the

door

,

then

I

saw

a

poor

dog

,

quaking

with

fear

and

also

I

heard

the

weeping sound . I looked straightly into my father

’

s eyes , he froze there , and I cried

and ran away. He called my name, but I didn

’

t respond , just keep crying . I forgave

him when he promised that he would never kill a dog . Sometimes hand in hand ,we

went to the farmland , I was happy and always danced around him . It seemed that he